Saturday, June 18, 2022

Love when you are ready not when you are lonely.

I stole this from LinkedIn, and I like the message here.

Dating because you're lonely isn't a good enough reason to date. Trust me.

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Being single is not going to kill you & being in a relationship is not going to heal you.

Unfortunately, people get into relationships without knowing what they are looking for and claim that, “it just happened!”

This could be one of the many reasons why there are many broken or unhealthy relationships.

Many of our problems are created because we do not set boundaries for ourselves; we quickly respond with a yes, when in fact, we meant to say no.

What people say they want compared to what they naturally respond to end up being two different things.

Until you get comfortable with knowing why you want what you want, you will never know if you are choosing something out of love or neediness.

A healthy relationship is when two people come together to meet each other's needs, to share a completeness and to create beautiful memories!

You do not need someone to complete you; you are whole all by yourself.

“A healthy relationship is the result of two people sharing their completeness, not completing each other."

It is not our job to change people we love to what we think they should be, but it is our job to recognize when a relationship is toxic and requires us to walk away from it.

Before you jump into a new relationship, before you are defined by someone else, take the time to define who you are first. 

Love when you are ready not when you are lonely.

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